While it may seem impossible when you’re in the most heartbreaking pain of your life, it’s imperative to make yourself ridiculously happy right away.ĭo whatever you have to do to make yourself laugh, feel inspired, delighted, self-expressed, alive, and loved by family and friends. It’s only the beginning, and the story will get much, much better. If you’re having a visceral reaction to this idea right now, it’s not the end of the story. Here’s exactly how to recover the good you had with your husband in the very beginning: But these radical measures are what I’ve seen breathe new life into broken marriages for thousands of women in your distressing situation-and what I did to revitalize my own broken marriage. You can put everything right again but only if you do things very, very differently than you’ve been doing them.Įverything I’m going to suggest will sound counterintuitive.
There are, however, specific things you can do to give yourself real relief from that continuous ache and to put your family back together. Unfortunately, there’s no real comfort in making him suffer, even though it’s more tempting than a Cinnabon. It’s natural to want him to hurt the way he hurt you.
It’s only human to be angry with him for being such a thoughtless jerk. Or-maybe even worse-to discover those things without him saying anything. I can’t think of anything more painful or heartbreaking than hearing your husband say “I don’t love you anymore.
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